I think our society greatly defines who we are,
more so than how we define ourselves. Growing up in our society has given us
great freedoms that other people in other regions of the world may not
necessarily have, and I think we sometimes overlook that. We are able to attend
school for free, and further our education by going to college, if we choose to
do so. I know, as a female, that I wouldn’t be able to do such a thing if I
were born in a different country. We can decide what our career paths will be,
and we can separate ourselves from the shadows of our parents and other
relatives (meaning if your dad is a baker, you do not necessarily need to be
one too, unless you want to). These are things we perceive as normal, and we
take advantage of them. This is apart of our culture. We are outspoken,
independent, and have many opportunities that we take for granted.
To bring this to a more personal level, we tend
to develop character traits, ideas, and opinions from the people who surround
us. I was adopted as an infant, and I have absolutely no recollection of my
biological parents. My parents raised me since I was 6 weeks old, and, in my
opinion, they are what matters to me. I was adopted into a very Italian family,
and even though I am not Italian, I developed the “typical attributes” of an
Italian. Family is number one, nothing could ever change that, and I know I can
talk to any one of my family members (and there’s a lot of ‘em to choose from!)
if I have any problems and they wouldn’t think twice about helping me. I’m at
times very loud, I talk with my hands, and I take care of my own, whether they
need financial support, emotional support, or just a good meal in their
stomach.
Something about myself that has resulted from my
own creativity is the major, and eventually, career path I have chosen. I’ve
always loved all things art related, and throughout my years of schooling I
have developed that creativity. In high school we had studio art classes, and I
chose photography. I submitted much of my work into local art shows and really
got an understanding of the inner-workings of small art galleries. After I
graduated I attended a local community college and began taking drawing classes
and fell in love with a whole new medium. When I finally transferred to
Southern, I decided to further my interest of the art world and became an art
history major. The fact that I used to make art has helped me to better
understand the processes other artists go through when they create. This
defines me because no one else in my family is interested in the arts/art
world.
When it comes to social identity and
whether or not we have responsibilities for those around us, I believe it
depends on whom it is. As I said in my first paragraph, our country and where
we are raised defines us on a large scale, but I do not necessarily think we
have a moral responsibility to give to our government. As it is, we already pay
taxes and give up apart of our income to our government, and that is enough.
Obviously, if you have the extra resources it would be great if you could
contribute more, but I do not think have to. But when it comes to family and
those who helped raise you and make you into the person you are today, I
absolutely think we have a moral responsibility to help them out of they ever
need it. As I said in my second paragraph, my family means the world to me and
I have no problem dropping everything to be by their side because they have sacrificed
so much for me. It is only right that I do the same for them.
I completely agree with the firm belief that family comes first. You gave an outstanding example of how you are shaped by those who raise you, when you stated how you inherited the "typical Italian attributes."
ReplyDeleteI understand that we already give enough to the government, but we have to also realize that the government absolutely sucks at keeping a balanced budget. I think it is also a downer, that most people automatically assume of helping out with monetary value. I believe that helping shouldn't be all about giving money; hell money is already short. Helping should be done in other ways other than giving money. Like volunteer type work in your community.