Thursday, April 18, 2013

Society shapes us.


Society starts giving each individual a role at a very early age, and up to this day of age. We have kindergarten teachers, teaching little boys about a fireman’s job. A role that is very aggressive, manly. In contrast, little girls tend to have a more nurturing role. They are giving roles as nurses, they’re even provided with dolls that highly resemble babies. As a matter of fact, the toy industry tries to make these baby dolls as “real” as possible. Some burp, some cry, some blink. All in all, society engraves a role onto you.

Personally, I consider myself to be shaped by society. However, it’s a little more complex. Being born in another country has impacted my ideology. Born and raised in a catholic state, in conflicted government, with peers from African decent has shaped me very differently. For once, I am atheist. Something very uncommon within the Hispanic community. I tend to sympathize more for a liberal – socialist system. I’ve lived in poverty, and the amount of aid the government once provided helped many people in what we call social mobility. Moving to America has made me a very tolerable person regarding controversial social issues.  Something many Hispanic males aren’t. Although, I was raised old fashioned by my grandparents, in a way I am “machista”. Which brings tons of problems interpersonally. But it’s not to the extreme where I automatically think less of the opposite gender. I practice chivalry daily.  At a young age I was introduced to the Peruvian society, which makes the old fashion me. Later on in life, I assimilated the tolerance and freedom from the American society. Society shaped my beliefs, my ideology, and my life.

I early stated that I practice chivalry on a daily basis. If I can help someone, and this aid does not have a greater disadvantage on me. I will willingly help even a stranger. I don’t believe in coercive responsibilities, no such thing as a moral responsibility. Whatever kind of effort to overview an individual’s welfare should come out of one’s will.

3 comments:

  1. You didnt discuss what percentages of which type you felt you were. Also there could have been a few more arguments. I would have also liked to see something on social identity. I do like the first paragraph and your example of how society has shaped you.

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  2. Your first paragraph was an excellent intro to describe the whole point of the post. I also agree with the fact that if we have the means why not give a little help? Not to complete strangers and it wouldn't be in the form of money.I'd give people job opportunities to make themselves some more money.

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  3. I thought this was a very well-said post. Your examples from your own life were very informative. However I think you should have discussed the concept of us being influenced by our own ideas more explicitly.

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